Are you going to have a headstone or plaque?

[kiwithrottlejockey]

Some graves have both a headstone and a plaque.

Take my grandfather's grave as an example. He has a headstone erected.

After our parents died six months apart, we interred their ashes in our grandfather's grave (he was my mother's dad) and had a plaque added just in front of the headstone.

It just seemed like a good idea.

[kiwithrottlejockey]

BTW ... there is no mention whatsoever of god on either the headstone or the plaque.

Neither are there any religious symbols such as a cross.